Written by Eugene Tng, QASP-S, Programme Director at ABA LABS Some children need things to be just so. The same cup, the same route, the same routine, the same order, and any deviation can trigger real distress. This need for sameness is common in children with developmental differences, and while it's not something to crush, a degree of flexibility is an important skill for coping with a world that constantly changes. This post explains how to build flexibility gently, witho

Written by Eugene Tng, QASP-S, Programme Director at ABA LABS Few parenting moments feel harder than a full meltdown in a supermarket, on public transport, or in the middle of a crowded mall, the noise, the stares, the pressure to make it stop now. For parents of children who melt down, public meltdowns carry an extra layer of stress: the judgment of onlookers. This post offers practical strategies for handling them calmly, and for reducing how often they happen. First, Under

Written by Eugene Tng, QASP-S, Programme Director at ABA LABS The first day of school is a milestone for every family, and for a child with additional needs, and their parents, it can bring extra nerves. New environment, new people, new routines, new expectations, all at once. But with thoughtful preparation in the weeks beforehand, that first day can go far more smoothly. Here's a practical guide to getting your child (and yourself) ready. Start Preparing Early Don't leave p